The creative ideas of making the relationship with Jean, Scott, Emma, and Logan have become volatile with whichever way they went over the last 20 years.
There was no such actual pacifism,
even if to a certain extent they tried to make peace for a certain time(when Logan talked to Scott during Aaron's run).
But let's face it modern age major characters' status quo is
temporary and all of these SERIOUS relationship melodramas HAVE MILKED the quality of comics in many ways.
Therefore I believe it's better to keep these things away from the main narrative with such teases or lighten up these as much as possible.