She is with Xavier and Magneto because she needs them, not because they are men. She has undeniable tension surrounding Destiny, not because she's a woman but because...1.jpg
Yeah, so? Thats not justification for making up plot points that don't exist and ignoring ones that do. Its one thing to criticize for something that they did, God knows Marvel and the X-Office have given us plenty of things to criticize over the years. Its one thing to dislike something even if its otherwise wildly popular, opinions are totally fair game and you don't need to justify or explain them. Its another thing entirely to make up plot points to criticize them over.
As far as having many, many things waiting to explode... Well, yeah. Thats what you do with stories, you build up areas of conflict. As Anduinel points out thats Narrative tension.