Right I think I understand where you're coming from but it sounds like you're projecting your own feelings onto the character granted I'm far from an expert on Jean and Emma and their history with each other but has Jean ever expressed these feelings towards Emma and if so under what context? To me the biggest thing Jean had a problem with concerning Emma was the affair which shr effectively gave her blessings for as the White Phoenix. Barring Ghost Jeans comments the writers of her post-resurrection have written Gene as a much more forgiving person and someone who has risen above that portion of her life.
That wasn't my question though I understand that you believe that Jean and Emma Frost be mortal enemies. However given their current relationship under Hickman's pen and your feelings about things happening off panel how would you personally have resolved their issues so that you could at least shared a cordial beer with each other?