Here is your list with missing stories
1) Batman: Year One
2) Shaman
3) Monster Men
4) Mad Monk
4.1) Prey (Yes, I've said The Man who Laughs comes right after Mad Monk, to get this reading order right Prey happens in the end of the Mad Monk story (but before Batman mentions the warehouse full of corpses), when some time passes and Julie Madison goes and gets established in Africa).
5) The Man who Laughs
6) Gothic
7) Venom
8-prequel) Batman:Haunted Knight
8) The Long Halloween
9) The Collected Lengends of the Dark Knight (Blades and Hot House)
10) Night Cries (Gordon just got promoted to Commissioner)
11) Dark Victory
11b)Catwoman: When in Rome
12) The Gauntlet
13) Robin Year One
14) Faces
15) Terror
16) Batgirl - Year One
17) The Cat and the Bat
18) Other Realms
19) King Tut's Tomb
20) Tales of the Demon (Like you've said, a pre-crisis story that fits perfectly here in this post-crisis era)
21) Nightwing - Year One
22) Batgirl - Special
23) The Killing Joke
24) Ten Nights of the Beast
25) The Cult (One of the best stories I've read of Batman, here he establishes his time as batman as "almost a decade")
26) Arkham Asylum: A Serious house on serious earth
27) Death in the Family
27b)
Alonely place of Dying
28) Blind Justice
29) The many deaths of the batman
If you're gonna read Knightfall - pick up the New Omnibus versions or the New tpb versions from 2018-19
If you want a more correct list, check this one out:
http://www.comicsbackissues.com/comi...reading-order/