I don’t really think we disagree.
I hated Ted’s death but, it was well done and impactful. It took what came before (goofy Ted) and used it to advance him (Ted is onto something but nah, it’s Ted). He suffered a huge betrayal in Max (we all did), and he went out defiant.
Jaime shows up and like I said, I didn’t want to see this guy, he reminded me of Ted.
Oddly, though he’s just a comic book character, i’ve Had the same reaction to new Unit members who’ve replaced old ones who ET/PCS’d or fallen in battle when I was in the Army; unlike RL though I could avoid Jaime by just not buying his book so it took a lot longer to come to terms. Jaime’s cool though.
And there’s the Booster Gold book, where he (Booster) acted like we all would if we had a chance to bring back a loved one, and got some kinda closure.
And I was honestly okay w. Ted staying dead.
Especially since his return(s) in N52 and Rebirth and presently, have been treated as afterthoughts. The guy either deserved to RIP or a proper comeback, w. a well written resurrection and a series that went all in w. a top notch writer/artist who’d give us the book some of us have been waiting for since the eighties.