Agreed. The X-Men's downfall was when the writers decided to live vicariously through Cyclops (looking at Morrison, Whedon, Fraction, Gillen, etc.) and the entire X-Universe became all about him much to the detriment of every other character. And even the fake blonde only benefited because the writers wanted to sleep with her so as a result, she was sleeping with their pet character Cyclops, but the second they were done with her, she was shipped off to the hell of obscurity. I would much rather have one of the most popular superheroes in the world like Wolverine be paired with Jean than someone who incels have come to venerate.
It's funny how fandoms are so misogynistic that writers' favorite male characters like Jean Grey, Storm, Kitty Pryde, Sage, etc. are dubbed Mary Sues but male characters like Cyclops who were propped up for decades by the writers never get branded as such.