God I’m concerned if you have kids, you’d trust anyone with them. Hopefully you have different standards in real life. So I’m going to guess this is like a “Robin” thing where we have looser standards for the dc universe. But even then, I still think what Lois and Clark did was stretching it much too far. And framing him eventually breaking out after years of captivity as validating “he can take care of himself” that’s messed up man.