Okay, but plenty of people default to "Conner" for Kon-El and think of it as his "real" name, even though it's not his first given name, either. Though for me, I haven't read much with her since she was given Rachel as a civilian name (she used Raven in college originally, if I recall correctly)
Also, New 52 comes in. I haven't read relevant stories, but the wiki says Rachel is her birth name there and Trigon renamed her Raven. Not my thing.
So with Conner and retcons, I wondered what name people thought of her as. Glad Raven is the winner, since I'm on the losing side elsewhere.