Of course, it is (quite often).
But I also think it sometimes reflects a genuine irritation at what seems to be pedantry, and acting as if verbal terms used without any real malice, are as evil as deliberate cruelty or denying people opportunities depending on their race or gender.
I certainly think at times you have to look beyond a person's exact wording, and make judgments based on their overall character, their likely intent, etc, etc.
Am I?
So if I meet an elderly relative who I know to be generous and fair minded and she or he employs a phrase from long ago I should disregard everything I know about them?
Or when I meet some one from a completely different culture from mine and they use a phrase that carries racist overtones in my own culture I should immediately assume “racist”?.
Realistically, I’m just practicing empathy by trying to really understand where the other person is coming from.
A British Reporter Had a Big #MeToo Scoop. Her Editor Killed It.
nside the Financial Times newsroom this winter, one of its star investigative reporters, Madison Marriage, had a potentially explosive scoop involving another newspaper.
A prominent left-wing columnist, Nick Cohen, had resigned from Guardian News & Media, and Ms. Marriage had evidence that his departure followed years of unwanted sexual advances and groping of female journalists.
Ms. Marriage specialized in such investigations. She won an award for exposing a handsy black-tie event for Britain’s business elite. A technology mogul got indicted on rape charges after another article.
But her investigation on Mr. Cohen, which she hoped would begin a broader look at sexual misconduct in the British news media, was never published. The Financial Times’ editor, Roula Khalaf, killed it, according to interviews with a dozen Financial Times journalists.It was not spiked because of reporting problems. Two women were willing to speak openly, and Ms. Marriage had supporting documentation on others. Rather, Ms. Khalaf said that Mr. Cohen did not have a big enough business profile to make him an “F.T. story,” colleagues said.
Mr. Cohen’s departure and the death of Ms. Marriage’s article offer a window into the British news media’s complicated relationship with the #MeToo movement. Leading American newsrooms — Fox News, CNN, NBC, The New York Times and others — have confronted misconduct allegations. British journalism has seen no such reckoning.
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It's in the best interests or political hacks and grifters to leave the definition of "woke" as vague as possible allowing people to project whatever they don't like about liberals, Democrats, or progressives onto the term. It allows them to them to limit voting rights and ban books, under the guise of fighting "wokeness"...all while taking money from lobbyist and corporate donors.
That is political correctness. Woke is understanding that all people, no matter their race, sex or orientation should be treated fairly and equally. That the abuses of the past should be addressed and not forgotten and pushed aside.
I belive Woke came out of a phrase Black people used in the 60s, "wake up white people!". That became "are you woke?" In other words, do you see how your fellow man is treated?
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There came a time when the Old Gods died! The Brave died with the Cunning! The Noble perished locked in battle with unleashed Evil! It was the last day for them! An ancient era was passing in fiery holocaust!
I'm confused at what exactly you are criticizing? Is it "woke" leftists literally criticizing other people for not being "woke"?
I mean, if you're criticizing people calling other people's words/actions "racist", then just be clear on that, and leave "woke" out of it ... because I don't think anybody on the left is much using "woke" as a some kind of standard someone may fail at or lack. Empathy sure ... conservatives are often rightly called out for lacking that. But the "woke" thing is a Jedi mind-trick the right has pulled: "Woke" is another perfect target for an endless made up conflict, like "War on Drugs" or "War on Terror" ... when it's really just the packaging for whatever fascist scheme they've gotten up to lately.
What was it, from Spaceballs?
Not saying I necessarily agree with all the sentiments about how well the "high road" has been working for Democrats ... but it does feel that way, sometimes.
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Be kind to me, or treat me mean
I'll make the most of it, I'm an extraordinary machine
I don't think there was ever any avalanche of accusations of people not being politically correct, either.
More just people complaining about "political correctness", when what they meant is that they couldn't be as openly bigoted with absolute guarantee of no repercussion, as they would like. I mean, we know it's not like racism, sexism, any of our various deeply ingrained societal ills -- we know they're not gone, they just can't be expressed the same way.
My heart doesn't really break, that you might get some reactions you don't like, if you say things that are offensive. Maybe try not to do that, would be my suggestion. It's generally worked pretty well for me.*
(Edit: To be clear, my criticism of the term "political correctness" is not at all aimed at you, Kirby101! Just want to clarify, since I'm responding to your post!)
Be kind to me, or treat me mean
I'll make the most of it, I'm an extraordinary machine
I don't wish him to pass before his time, but I hope it is a fitting way to go for such a person.
This will do nothing to sway the GoP and their adoration of Putin. Graham has already been thrown under the bus in so many other situations at this point I'm sure they don't truly care about him.
Asking for something you know is going to be refused because it can't be accepted to complain it was refused is very fitting of modern conservatism.
Empathy isn't a bad thing even when you know there's nothing you can do to help the situation. Being able to see things from the perspective of another helps to ensure we don't dehumanize them, but when someone has shown you who they are by what they say and do it doesn't mean you have to sympathize with them when you are trying to understand them.
I'm with The Cool Thatguy here.
Who could have ever guessed this guy was such a horrible person, who is being made a Hero by elected GoP officialls and many conservative pundits & personalities.
Flat Earthers still exist and are occasionally injuring themselves trying to prove their theories. The oldies never go away.
Like CRT, they are lumping everything they don't like about liberal policies under a single title to rile up the conservative base. It has very little to do with actual reality, and helps to disguise their bigoted facist goals as already mentioned.
I agree wholeheartedly, but see below. It is very pedantic for anyone to get stuck on an unimportant issue that they know doesn't matter to the overall conversation/point.
If you have no other reason to assume they are a bigot, you warn them about how the phrase is seen nowadays and you recommend they stop using it, it's not that hard. Their reaction to a mild criticism will help to reveal whether they are/aren't a bigot in reality.
People who leap to assuming you are a racist instantly aren't people I associate with if I can avoid it.
I would like to hear a british opinion on this story, as our cultures are very different in some ways.
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There came a time when the Old Gods died! The Brave died with the Cunning! The Noble perished locked in battle with unleashed Evil! It was the last day for them! An ancient era was passing in fiery holocaust!
Exactly this.My heart doesn't really break, that you might get some reactions you don't like, if you say things that are offensive. Maybe try not to do that, would be my suggestion. It's generally worked pretty well for me.*
I don't know why this is so difficult. The problem is that a lot of white people have defined themselves by their bigotry so the inability to express said bigotry is taken as a personal attack.
As an individual, I don't use offensive language or slurs of any kind because it's not stuff I keep in my vocabulary or thoughts.
Life just seems much easier when respecting people and not offending anyone.
You as an individual may not believe that as human beings we should strive to treat people on the other side of most issues the same way we would want our side to be treated.
The typical politician doesn't meet that standard. I'm not claiming DeSantis does, but that's not really a partisan thing.
If you disagree with a post, quote it. I think you misinterpret older comments if you think I support white nationalists.
By exaggerating their power, it does give them comfort, because it contributes to a sense they're on the verge of victory.
But I don't know what persuaded you.
I disagree with some of his policies, but the criticism tends to be overblown.
This assumes agreement about what works to help our less fortunate citizens.
The main argument for the right is that programs not only cost money, but makes things worse.
This gets to a few issues.
There are calls for purity that make it impossible to win elections. If your view is that a majority position is so disgusting that it shouldn't even be entertained, it's going to be hard to persuade a majority to vote for you.
Messaging to centrists becomes difficult if officials have to worry about activists insisting that you use their language.
That's a conversation that should be had very carefully.
It is also frustrating for people who feel that their language is policed and that they suddenly have yo abide by the cultural norms of outsiders.
Sincerely,
Thomas Mets
This is not about what I “think” — this is about facts and evidence.
Nothing is being misinterpreted — if you support candidates who promote white nationalism and homophobia then you support it as well.
If you disagree then provide counter evidence to the evidence already provided.
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