Originally Posted by
Vakanai
And that you can't see this in your party is pretty unnerving. Republicans don't want what is best for trans people. They're pretty intentional about wanting us gone, with language that feels pretty in line with desire to exterminate us. And even if it's not by death camps and murder, their intention to be rid of us in other ways is well documented with every anti-trans law they pass. You try to argue around this, that they're "not like the nazis" at least not yet. But when someone fights actively against your right to exist, when they promote policies designed to only harm you and your community, and when they actively help to spread hate against you and your community, hate leading to a significant increase in violence committed against others like you, do you really want to hear about how these people believe this is "best" for you and everyone else like you? How people trying to remove you from society is not at all like what the nazis did?
Republicans, most of them, know exactly what they are doing, and they do not have my best interest or the interest of other trans people in mind. And those few who do honestly believe they're doing us good and not acting out of hate are purely delusional and just as dangerous. What do these people have to offer to politics, to other American people, that is worth mine and others suffering to you? Because ultimately that's the argument. These people, whether intentionally or unintentionally, and trust it's mostly intentionally, are making the lives of trans individuals harder and more miserable than it has to be, to the point some of us would rather take our own lives than live through this hateful unceasing attack against us. And those who support and vote for those pushing this hate, this "non-violent" genocide, this extremist rhetoric against us, those people are saying that this is okay, that what is given by these conservative leaders in exchange more than makes up for the harm afflicted against trans people.
What does DeSantis and others of his ilk offer that makes it okay that people like me are too terrified to even come out to our families? That those brave enough to come out are forever harassed with a target on their back? That those trying to live their lives are blocked from getting the medical care they need to do so? That their existence can't be acknowledged in the classroom, that their chosen pronouns are ignored, that any parent who accepts them for who they are risks jail time or prison time? That the accepting parent would lose rights to the parent who doesn't accept their child's own truth? That people can't even wear the clothes that best fit who they are without being called a public obscenity and a child predator? Just for wearing a dress in public? Of seeing elected representatives time and time again liking tweets that paint us as child groomers or some big cabal controlling Hollywood and the media unduly? What does the modern conservative candidate have to offer that makes all of this okay?
I ask, but you won't answer this. You'll try to paint it as not that bad or exaggeration, when it really isn't, not when seen in the big picture. You'll try and paint it like only a minority are for it, even when it's become your party's mainstream platform and one of the dominant positions of the politician you most want in the oval office. You'll try to sidestep the issue, move goal posts, ignore this, anything to not answer this question. But it stands. What does the party that promotes such hate that I shiver in fear, and I do mean this literally not figuratively because I have shuddered and shivered at the thought, of what might happen to me if anyone found out this "little" secret of mine, have to offer you that makes this alright? What about DeSantis politics are worth the silent approval of the emotional and spiritual hell he's put Floridian trans people through? What are all these conservatives for that makes it okay to not be against them when they want to "eradicate" transgenderism?