Reading that NYT article it's kind of telling that Mister Mets refused to excerpt this big section. It's really interesting what he selected and editorialized on this message board:
So yeah "Lazarus and Dives"...asking for second chances at the ultimate moment when nothing you did leading up to it made you re-examine your life.The use of the slur by a Heritage High School student was not shocking, many said. The surprise, instead, was that Ms. Groves was being punished for behavior that had long been tolerated.
A ‘hostile learning environment’
Leesburg, the county seat of Loudoun County, lies just across the Potomac River from Maryland, about an hour’s drive from Washington. It was the site of an early Civil War battle, and slave auctions were once held on the courthouse grounds, where a statue of a Confederate soldier stood for more than a century until it was removed in July.
The Loudoun County suburbs are among the wealthiest in the nation, and the schools consistently rank among the top in the state. Last fall, according to the Virginia Department of Education, the student body at Heritage High was about half white, 20 percent Hispanic, 14 percent Asian-American and 8 percent Black, with another 6 percent who are mixed race.
In interviews, current and former students of color described an environment rife with racial insensitivity, including casual uses of slurs.
A report commissioned last year by the school district documented a pattern of school leaders ignoring the widespread use of racial slurs by both students and teachers, fostering a “growing sense of despair” among students of color, some of whom faced disproportionate disciplinary measures compared with white students.
“It is shocking the extent to which students report the use of the N-word as the prevailing concern,” the report said. School system employees also had a “low level of racial consciousness and racial literacy,” while a lack of repercussions for hurtful language forced students into a “hostile learning environment,” it said.
Some visual aid of the energy on Mr. Galligan:For his role, Mr. Galligan said he had no regrets. “If I never posted that video, nothing would have ever happened,” he said. And because the internet never forgets, the clip will always be available to watch.
“I’m going to remind myself, you started something,” he said with satisfaction. “You taught someone a lesson.”
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Let me say that, all things being equal, I'd agree that the reaction to Groves was excessive but in a world that so routinely punishes and marginalizes, so tacitly enables and oppresses non-white students, and places so many barriers and hoops on their path to success, on their careers and so on...I cannot in any way string a violin larger than points between my thumbnail and my thumb, about this kind of situation.
Since white people have so much power and privilege, the right way is to be compassionate to others the way you expect them to be in return. So scrub of all drug charges and possessions, compensate people for the degradation they experienced, reform the police and so on, provide better services to minority neighborhoods make them feel as safe and protected as white neighborhoods. If you do that, if you can show you can do that, if you are willing to offer African-Americans the same level of second chances as this girl does (I guarantee after this NYT sob story, there's going to be someone who calls the Groves family and tell them they'll help their daughter and so on), then there won't be need of this kind of accountability (which in any case isn't always permanent since as Galligan noted his original attempts to make it known didn't go anywhere).