i agree. it boggles my mind seeing the great lengths folks go to protect their whiteness.
in my opinion if you are white then a part of you is racist, maybe unconsciously, but it's there because you are on the favorable side of a system that has oppressed people of color for centuries. hollywood and media and advertising constantly pushing the white image. whiteness is everywhere. i as a white person grew up in a predominantly black neighborhood but even still i have no excuse, i have to look for the capabilities of racism within myself so i can purge it. what helps me is i know deep down that racism is vile, evil, wrong. i believe wholeheartedly that we are all equal and with that all cultures and ethnicities should be respected and they should have a voice. i also believe the police are inherently racist and oppressive, since their inception in the US.
the trick is to unlearn the norms of society that have made white people so complacent