Proposition: What we are facing in America is not a pandemic, or economic malaise, or resurgence of inequality, racism, xenophobia, homophobia, or lack of options, food, shelter, you name it. What we are facing is a crisis of meaning or, if not quite a crisis of meaning, than a prolonged period in which old institutions, mindsets, temperaments, and habits are just delivering what many or most of us need or want to live positive, meaningful, happy lives. God is dead (and not coming back), there is no national narrative that commands a clear majority ore even working consensus, as past narratives, however mythic or incomplete, once did.
We could be the Land of the Free or a Nation of Immigrants, even if those were often wishful thinking. Yet what all of us face is a constantly proliferating set of choices--of where to live, what to consume, who to love, and on and on. Despite many terrible aspects of contemporary life, virtually all the worst--absolute poverty, de jure race and gender segregation, draconian law enforcement mass violence, etc.--have been effectively eradicated or vitiated near unto death. The vast majority of us, even low-income us, have something approaching terrible, terrible freedom. We are effectively post-scarcity and an existential crisis of meaning has been democratized.
Most of our activity is performed at the symbolic level and we have the ability to change who we are, what we think, what we believe with an ease that was unthinkable 30 years ago, much less 50 or 100. Yet we are terrified by this freedom especially how others might use it. In the absence of a compelling and forward-looking, inclusive national narrative, too many of us are resorting to the worst form of political tribalism to solve our need for meaning and intellectual, psychological, and personal identity But you can't solve a crisis of meaning through politics because politics is as much about controlling others as it is liberating us.
We have effectively gained escape velocity from the worst parts of the past and yet we are looking longingly back at the past with nostalgia (build back better! make America great again!) for a past that was nowhere as good today. The right has its version of this and the left has its own. What they share in common is a need to regiment society according to their unified field theories of what's good that comes right at the time we've slipped the surly bonds of material necessity and intolerance in profound ways. We needs a national narrative--a national operating system--that allows as many experiments in living to be running simultaneously as possible, not as few.
I have no idea how my immigrant grandparents, all of whom were born in the 1890s, came to America in the 1910s, and died by the 1980s, made sense of the changes during their lifetimes. The changes of past 20 or 30 years are almost as intense and yet we are sour about the future rather than excited, optimistic, and energized. Large-scale war is over (if you want it). Drug war, racism/homophobia/sexism, extreme poverty, all over. When will we start living in *this* world, rather than the smoldering ruins of the past? The minute we want to.