The Dark Knight trilogy...
And other than that, the only other example you could possibly bring up is BvS. That movie “failed” (even though it technically wasn’t a failure as much as it was a disappointment or underachiever) not due to the supposed realism in this debate, but due to many other factors.
I have to agree with powerboy in that your statement about not being able to do Superman in a realistic world effectively nullifies most superhero movies. I mean... Thor in New York City? How is that any different? Before you try to argue, I’ll give you your answer: it’s not.