Yes, that panel was posted a while back. But Shuri rejected that path and attacked instead. Both sides are locked in these escalating hostilities. It could have stopped had both sides been forced to come to the table and negotiate. Gaza strip was mentioned by Mr. MajestiK and that is a pretty close RW analogy. Israel seems to have the upper hand and Hamas has had more casualties on their side but it hasn't stopped them from trying to retaliate and try to put more notches on the side of the score.
My point is that both with the incursions and Wakanda/Atlantis mutual destruction, no one is trying trying to find another way out.