So basically you don't want the Parallax treatment for any of your favorites.
Hal being luckier than most doesn't change the fact that nobody else wants it happening to them, or that Hal fans can't say it was a shitty situation even if he came back. Them primarily being concerned with Hal over other Lanterns or characters doesn't come from a place of malice, it's because he's their favorite. That's fandom 101.