I don't get it - what are you looking for? You've now posted four different replies that are basically summed up by your first:
Is this a thinly veiled "Let's take another dig at Bendis" thread? Are you just hoping to find someone that agrees with you? Or are you really wanting to get people's opinions on the book? Because if it's the latter, like the OP suggests, that's what every response has been.a Bendis book with NO negative complaints or hate attached to it? I find that hard to believe.
For me, it's that Bendis effectively took Spider-man back to what it should be. After all the nonsense of the Clone Saga and how complicated 616 Spider-man had gotten, Bendis started fresh. He didn't reinvent the wheel though - it was still very much Stan Lee's Spider-man, but in the modern world. It's accessible, relatable, and funny. Even as the years went on - while 616 Spider-man was getting mystic origins, marriage retcons, and mind swaps - Ultimate Spider-man stayed true to what it was. Even at its worst, USM has been a solid boo, and is typically the best of Bendis's books, largely untarnished by his more annoying traits.
But if you want a discussion with others who couldn't get into it, you're not likely to find that here. This is a sub forum devoted to Ultimate Marvel, and pretty much all Ultimate fans are unanimously in support of USM, especially the original run. It's one of the few absolutes of this group.