You're a traditionalist when it comes to Spider-Man but you want Teresa as his sister?
Also the idea that Spider-Man is a loner is a little silly when one of his longest titles was a Marvel Team Up and he frequently has team ups with other heroes in his own books and frequently guest stars in others. That's before we get to his membership of the Avengers and the Future Foundation and his long standing friendships with Daredevil and Johnny Storm. Also wasn't one of the better recieved parts of the 90s Clone Saga was when Peter and Ben worked together.
I'm not sure how the 'Spider-Man' family popping in for the big Spidey events takes page time away from Spider-Man fighting his classic rogues. If they've not been used as much in Spencer's run it's because he doesn't want to use them not because they're being supplanted by the Spider family.