Originally Posted by
Tzigone
Even Pre-COIE? Doesn't matter why to me, though, as it was what was always presented on-panel. It made perfect sense with the background she was initially given (when initially given the name "Donna" in original Teen Titans) - she lived on Paradise island while Diana was the already-grown sibling who moved far away before Donna was born (well, before she was her sister, anyway). They were never shown as close, nor was there any reason they should be.
Also, I don't want Donna made into a satellite/supporting character for Diana. Yeah, I know she's been handled crappily for while now, as an independent, but I don't think putting her on Diana's "team" would do her any favors and would only cement her as an "always #2", which does not work for me. I want the younger gens to grow up and be just as amazing and respected as the first gen - and not to keep needing their guidance/mentorship/etc. because they were raised well and are now adults capable of handling the big issues just as well as the first-gen heroes are. I want her to be her own independent hero, living her own story and having her primary relationships be among those that get treated as her equals (by writers/fans/etc.), not her superiors/mentors. She's past that. And if she visited a mom, it should be her actual mom. I'd rather see Donna primarily in the mother than daughter role at this point in time (though they killed off her son and stepdaughter ages ago, so it's not happening, unfortunately). Similarly, while I want Hippolyta and Diana to have a good relationship, I don't want to see very much of Hippolyta actively mothering Diana. Not never ever, but rarely.
You put them together all the time, and there is absolutely going to be a hierarchy. And that's just not okay with me between adult characters. And it's worse between Diana and Donna than even Bruce and Dick or Ollie and Roy. At least they were parents and mentors to sidekicks and there's canonical basis for a lingering relationship of that type, even if I don't like it. Donna was never Diana's child or her sidekick, and still people want to make that the dynamic.