It's been a while, but even in her first story, didn't she reject the rejection of Superman as suitable? With some sort of comment about the lower classes not knowing quality? Reading that, my thought was that either attraction was playing a stronger role than it should in her selection process, or she was re-evaluating her mindset on what weakness was (on whether he was expressing it). Though I suppose it could be read an actual, unbiased-by-desire, assessment. That just wasn't my first thought.