Even if it wasn't your first run, I suppose it would be fair to say it was the first one who really excited you, right? I guess the effect is the same (for a person who started during Morrison's run but didn't really like it, they probably didn't kept reading and maybe they only got back and got hooked during Fraction's run or something). Sorry I didn't express it more clearly.
Look, I think cheating is always wrong, because even if the romantic feelings are over, the other person will most likely still get hurt and I think it hurts the person who cheats too (in a different way). But it's not the cheating that bothers me. It's the abuse, it's the preying on someone who is clearly dealing with a lot of trauma, depression, super low self-esteem and very little sense of self. Just because the victim is a male and society doesn't recognise abuse as readily, it doesn't make it any less atrocious. If Scott was a woman and the telepath who was "treating" him was a man, fans would have no problem calling the telepath a rapist. Heck, I heard people calling Xavier a rapist for much, much, much less than that.
But that's not my only issue with his run. The list is bigger and I don't want to go into it. I just think I should point this out because I'm very vocal about how much I love Jean and Scott as a couple and it might give people the wrong idea. But really: the affair is not my only issue with the run.
As for discussion about things we disagree... I love it. As long as people are respectful, I like it as much as when people agree. Even if I don't change my mind, I honestly take what the posters are saying into consideration and it often enriches my perspective. At the very least, it challenges me to re-evaluate my opinions and I think it's a wonderful thing. If we never do it, we never grow, right? I understand that discussions about fictional characters and stories won't have a direct impact in my life, but it helps training my brain to be more flexible and that does impact my life directly.
So I'm really grateful to all of you, guys (who enjoy engaging in these discussions), for the opportunity.