It really put some doubts how much interaction with women some male writers have. Because I think one way to write good female characters is knowing women on real life, talk to them and ask how they would like to be written in a book.
The other problem is that some identify with male characters and neglet the female characters. SAw this many times, specially with Jean.
Oh well, I'm a bit tired of writers when writing Lorna always remembering Alex, like she has no life out of being His GF or being Magneto daughter. But when writing Alex writers many times doesn't remember Lorna, I don't remember she being mentioned on Hellions or Uncanny Avengers. With hellions it is clear that the focus is him and Maddie.
This is a case that I think writers have to finish it and move on.
It also happens to Jean, writers didnt thought twice in kicking her out of Cyclops life. And also are relaly quick to make her his wife when it is convenient with little care about her character.
Female charactesr should be able to get lives independet of male characters