Originally Posted by
Grinning Soul
No, Emma didn’t try to get to the bottom of Scott's problem. She never actually deals with what was causing the communication problems between Scott and Jean - which was exactly what he asked Emma to help him with.
Scott and Jean were doing fine before The Twelve. They had decided to stay in Alaska for a while to try to start their own family together. They had no communication problems. Literally, the only thing that happens that make it change is Scott's being possessed by Apocalypse. That is the cause. Once Jean and Cable rescues him, he's shattered inside, dealing massive trauma.
Emma simply dismisses his trauma and focus on the marriage as if that was the problem instead. That is not what a therapist should do.
And it’s definitely not what a therapist should do when the patient doesn’t agree with the methods. Scott makes it clear he just wants to talk. But she traps him in a telepathic session and she’s control of the situation: she chooses to start it while he’s piloting, she makes him feel like falling, she makes him feel afraid and unsafe, she symbolically strips him away from his past uniforms, etc…
This is very manipulative. And yes: after Jean finds out about the affair, Emma confess to Logan exactly that: "(...) I'm so shallow... and spitefull... and... manipulative(...)"
She wasn’t trying to help Scott at first. She was dealing with her own very big recent traumas and being selfish and trying to hurt Jean because she was very jealous of her. She didn’t plan on falling in love with Scott, but she wasn't trying to help him either.
Do you remember in which issue? I’m curious, but I think there is a case to be made there, actually, which still doesn’t excuse the abuse. But, at that moment, because of the problems they were having, Jean couldn’t have helped him indeed because he couldn’t let her help him.
Scott is not a telepath. He literally could not have stopped the telepathic connection. Could he had resisted longer? Maybe. I think he would have on normal circumstances, but you have to remember, he was dealing with actual trauma from the possession from Apocalypse. Scott was at his most fragile moment ever and that says a lot when you think of all the trauma this guy experienced in his life. We can’t judge him as if he had been at his most stable, confident ever. He wasn’t, even if he had the illusion that it was the case.
We can talk about it in more depth if you want. I’ll just ask we move it to private messages because then it really has nothing to do with Jean anymore.
(The discussion of the abuse is connected to Jean because I was making a point of why she shouldn’t be in a romantic relationship with Logan either).
But that doesn’t make what the male celebrities did or said right. Double standards should always be avoided, not used as an excuse to justify bad behaviour from any parts.
Exactly. They don’t. Society has more difficulty in recognising abuse when the victim is male. But this should change. Abuse is wrong regardless of who is the victim and who is the abuser.
I agree with it too.