I have to agree with both of you here. I am not sure if this is intended maliciously or just due to being misinformed about her character, but it is certainly irritating. And as both of you have pointed out, even if the objective was to clarify that her power has limitations, which is really unnecessary and makes no sense, much better dialogue could be used.
I have a love-hate relationship with her marriage to Scott. On the one hand, it makes me nostalgic, and I love its longevity; on the other hand, I would rather see her partner with someone else or just be single and grow in new ways.