Alfred is not that bad. While indeed what happened when Bruce got amnesic is bad (and whatever happened on Teen Titans but I'd like to believe that it never happened), but so far Alfred has been a quite good adult for Damian.
Bruce gave Damian Titus with "Damian has Issues and the dog maybe will do some good for him" in mind. Alfred gave Damian Alfred the Cat with "This cat reminds me of Damian and I think Damian will be happy to meet him" in mind. We can see which one made him happy and which one made him angry at first.
He gave Damian haircuts in RSOB.
Alfred's role of parenting in Supersons are maybe more than Bruce's.
He accompanied Damian on his thirteen's birthday.
I don't understand your point on endangered him unnecessarily during City of bane. He signaled Batman so Batman can attack Bane without any worry for his life. It's not his fault that Batman chose to send his 13 years old boy alone instead. Besides, before his death he also begged Bane not for his life, but for not killing him in front of Damian.
Just because he didn't want Damian, doesn't mean he wants him dead. He's come to love him, as he can. But Damian was not something Bruce set out to create or be responsible for. Damian was created as a means to try and control him. He was born to conquer the world and raised by evil. Nothing about Damian's situation is what Bruce wanted. He was created to be Bruce's worst nightmare.
This is true, but only regarding the first few years of Morrison's run. Bruce and Damian's reationship has evolved a lot, and the reason they are not getting along right is because when they wanted to villainize Damian, the first thing they did was destroy their reationship, which hasn't been fixed yet. They do love each other and I hate when people downpay their relationship like this. We're in 2021, not 2011.
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Yeah, same. Even though he had no desire for a child, he eventually did for Damian exactly what he did for all his other kids - gave him a home.
It's sometimes difficult for Bruce because - well, he's Bruce, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care for Damian. And the same can be said for the little shit. They just suck at emotions and they're both too proud.
"What is better? To be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?" ~ Paarthurnax
Godlike wasn't downplaying Damian and bruce's relationship nor were they being harsh.
Just spitting facts.
The debate is why does bruce keep taking kids under his wing/bring them into his world if he doesn't take responsibility.
Bruce didn't choose to bring Damian into his world. talia, Alfred and Dick did. Bruce returned and couldn't let him go.
Bruce loves Damian that's obvious but unlike Dick and Jason, Bruce wasn't the one who brought him into the Bat crime fighting World initially.
Exactly, thank you. Bruce didn’t want a 10 year old son he didn’t know existed, nor is Damian the ideal kind of son he would want or wanted. The kind of kid Bruce wants is like Dick, not an even more extreme little version of himself with a broken sense of morals. Bruce loves Damian, but he wasn’t prepared for him and quite frankly still isn’t. He might never be. But that’s part of the point of Damian. Even 10 years later. As much as Bruce loves Damian, and has come to accept Damian as he can, the very nature of Damian presents and remains a challenge for Bruce. Which is the intent behind Damian. And it’s not something they are going to resolve anything time soon.
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