Originally Posted by
Dermie
To be fair, for years they HAD moved on. They didn't sweep it under the rug either; the 80s and the 90s had several writers (Roger Stern and Steve Englehart in particular) work hard to redeem Hank and have him earn back his respect and deal with his issues, etc. They also had Hank and Jan eventually make their peace and re-enter each other's lives as friends (and even further down the road resume their relationship, in Kurt Busiek's run). Hank was a trusted and respected hero again, and he and Jan had a healthy relationship (arguably far healthier than they ever had when they were married).
For years it was moved past--not forgotten, but acknowledged as a dark chapter in their past that both Jan and Hank had moved on from.
And then Chuck Austen's run hit -- and he dragged all of the past baggage up and pretended like the characters hadn't already dealt with this years earlier. Then immediately after Austen's run was Geoff Johns, and he also did an issue revisiting that and having Jan tell Hank she'll never marry him. Then immediately after Johns came Bendis--and he wrote Hank and Jan as horribly dysfunctional and emotionally abusive to each other.
Several writers after that, including Dan Slott, Christos Gage and Mark Waid, tried to get back to showing Hank in a positive light (although Slott did also deal with Hank's emotional problems--but he spent as much time trying to build Hank back up as he did touching on his flaws), but the damage was done with the back-to-back runs of Austen, Johns and Bendis re-hashing the domestic violence incident and making it fresh in the minds of a new generation of readers.