I don't think that these are mutually exclusive.Here's the thing G-Soul...
What you and a others read/interpret as abuse to Jean and Scott (just one example of disparate interpretations) many others, myself included, don't quite see it in that light. It's not that you are wrong and we are right, or vice versa, it's just your personal opinion based on your understanding of what you read (regardless of how many agree with you).
You read Emma taking advantage of Scott in an emotionally vulnerable state.
I read Scott, as emotionally fraught as he was, being equally culpable within that situation.
What's important is we both stand by our opinions...so we "agree to disagree".
What seems so prevalent throughout these threads are opinions given as pure unadulterated facts that seem to leave very little room for understanding where each other is coming from. Within a certain context, I can see why some readers might think the Mutants are a "Cult of Supremacists bent on taking over the entire Earth". Do I agree with them? Absolute not. And so...I will not engage because doing so is just going to be a colossal waste of my time and mental energy.
So yeah...we should always pick and choose with whom we engage...these boards might be more fun if we did.