I wouldn't say most WW fans here hate Batman in general.
As I have repeatedly pointed out, which you don't seem to listen to, there are many versions of Batman over the years. Not all are going to click with fans when they are pushed a certain way.
They probably would have, but it's pointless to argue about because that's not how reality turned out. In reality, Marvel dominates cinemas with their initially less popular characters to the point where they can make a movie about anyone and have it be at least a modes success, if not a smash hit. DC had access to their entire catalogue and are completely clueless as how to consistently take advantage of that, and it's pathetic.
Being paired with Batman, at least the modern one, goes aganinst the concepts of her character as well. Nothing good has ever come of being romantically paired with either of them, and Batman beating her in a fight is far from the only reason.
And seriously, do you think him pulling out a magic anti-lasso out of his ass for one story and it will never be seen again is good writing? It's something a child would come up with.