Don't be too quick patting yourself on the back. You explicitly told me to mansplain to my wife that should be more careful how she expresses herself to her own husband in private.
The only people in this particular situation who have ended up looking bad are me for going public with her first impression of Hoechlin and you for thinking it was appropriate to dictate how other women are supposed to express themselves in private
So, since neither of us came of this situation looking particularly great, you might want to skip the "I told you so"