Yeah, but that's what I mean by the looseness... messiness of it. In terms of the aesthetics of storytelling, OMD feels like such a mess.
If you can't make MJ and Peter unmarried in some sort of clean way without causing a mess... don't do it.
It's the same way I felt about Greedo shooting first in special edition star wars. I personally don't care who shoots first (in terms of character), but the Greedo shooting first looks so unprofessional and messy with Han shifting his head to dodge the shot... it looks to me like a high-schooler did the effects. If Lucas couldn't do it cleanly and professionally he shouldn't have done it.
In both cases... the creators seem to be driven by some kind of "despair" to change something that wasn't that big of deal. I mean having Peter and MJ married was such an awful thing that they had to create this mess? I don't get it.