The XCU is a small portion of the x-universe. it ended when fox was sold to disney and can now only be used as reference of some things about xmen, mcu can learn or not learn from. XCU was a disjointed mess, no doubt, but the biggest strength was that it took an unconventional part to comic book story telling with their best films. only Nolan from DC or Snyderverse has taken this route and Nolan got some inspiration from the first XCU movie. high chances marvel will struggle with that because they style is different and marvel does not have a history of changing things.
It is, based on your own words indirectly when you said X1 had little action. X-Men does not really need action since they have deep compelling stories. so action is not really necessary. marvel does love their action. an action driven xmen movie is more likely to end up like X3 AGAIN.
Additionally, you also said you knew xmen was a soap opera. soap opera is another term for deeper and complex over dramatic plot lines. some good, others bad. others confusing. xmen was more for good though, it had a lot of baggage. Marvel is not into soap opera comic book movies. Ask the actor from Iron Man 2
maybe I will make it Easier, now that we have all seen the current wandavison, a good explanation of what an avengers story looks like. try and watch Legion. that is a good explanation of what an xmen story looks like.
legion is on Hulu not disney plus. Hulu is where Disney sends their deeper and more compelling series .many times with mature provoking content. that is what xmen and avengers represent.
try and read some x-books too. try Astonishing xmen 2004. it was written by the avengers director and a good place to start for a new reader.
laslty, don't result to saying I was bashing or given weak arguments. when you know I did no such thing. i gave lots and lots of compelling arguments of what makes xmen so different from the rest of marvel, that you even admitted you were sort of wrong or harsh to keep saying appropriation.
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