Yea, that is why it is best not to sink yourself into the debates or never ending arguements to much on the thread cause no matter what honest and compelling questions and points you make, their is always a re-bond to that, so it never really ends.
If you choose to have the debate that is fine and it should happen, you have the right to enjoy and debate what yo want and how much you want.
But if you are feeling overwelmed by it, I would not get to twisted in worry about it cause it is in our corner of the net that has this as well as some others to various degrees. I been out in other parts of the net and in Life and this kind of debate is really not the cocerning factor mostly.
At this point most people Love Wanda, Enjoy her charcters and don't get as serious as we do about the factors of these stories. Even the hardcore fans I talk to in Real Life All Blame Marvel, Bendis and Joe Quesada for these faults as well more then any character in the story as well as their respected editing houses.
If some Fans don't like her, they don't, it is a factor of all fandoms.
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Mik is to Hope for Better stories to come in the future to Fix things if their serious about it, but don't let that take away from your enjoyment of the character cause of the debates.
It happens with all franchises and characters, just do and engage in what you want to, but remember to love what you do.
Honestly for Me all this just makes me Love Wanda More and Want to learn more about her.