1. There is no myth of a formula, if this was a myth, why did Mickey Rouke factually complain about how much time he wasted on Iron Man 2 because marvel just wanted a specific thing?
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Honestly, this one all but answers itself.
It's Mickey Rourke.
It's not that hard to come up with a perfectly plausible scenario where this particular actor developed a case of the "Creative Differences..."