Originally Posted by
SiegePerilous02
It's not appealing anymore post-marriage, but I think it's an important part of his character arc growing up. Plain nerdy Peter who can't get dates or who is hung up on one girl (like Raimi's) has just never been who he was as a character. So nerdy guy getting the hot girl was never that much of a thing, it kind of seems to be invented as a narrative to undermine his romance to MJ and why it shouldn't work. Because through the 80s and 90s, it was just two hot people. Even in the Ditko days, he was no more unattractive than anybody else, his main issues were being shy/introverted and the attitude he displayed not being appealing to his classmates. Once he opened up in college, it's more believable for Gwen and MJ to be attracted to him.
Harry and Norman have the unfortunate "corn row" hair.