Originally Posted by
Panic
You keep pushing this stuff, and I really think you're wrong.
The people who didn't like TLJ usually complain about: Luke being screwed over, Finn's plotline being dull, Finn getting no development, Finn and Rose having no chemistry, Poe's story being irritating, the dismissal of Snoke and his backstory, and Rey's family reveal being nothing.
You keep trying to reframe TLJ as a film that failed because of misogynistic decisions, but your main issue of the Kylo Ren/Rey disfunctional romantic tends to be very much a guy's point of view. The dangerous broken bad-boy romantic interest is always hated by the majority of the male audience, but incredibly popular with female readers/viewers. You can rail about it all you want, but trying to tell women who they should be attracted to and what romantic fantasies they are allowed to have is patriarchal behaviour. You want to have this discussion, get some women in here, otherwise it's just a bunch of guys moaning about popular romantic tropes they're uncomfortable with.