As long as you choose to ignore OMD, BND is a good read. As far as i'm concerned i read it as if we got only the illusion of change since 1985. So no problem.
OMD poses some moral problems that should be adressed later, but no matter how crappy the Joe Q stuff was, or the fact that this EIC made all he could to make a reboot inavoidable during the last 7 years, that change nothing to the quality of the new stories.
You can read Dan Slott's BND as if it was the Marv Wolfman or the Roger Stern Spider-man with 2008 refs. It works.
I liked the marriage, and i even think that it would have been a good thing for Peter & MJ to have kids, but very few writers did write the marriage well. Michelinie, De Matteis, maybe one or two others, but thats all. Most of the writers didn't like the marriage, and you always work better when you like what you're working on.
I'll add to that the fact that the continuity became very problematic after the end of the Michelinie run. We got punisherish Spidey, the death of Aunt May, the Clone saga, the resurection of Norman, and lot of other things that were not good. But the real problem is that around this time, say 1993, too many people became aware of the real identity of Pete. Joe Q made it worse, first with the Spidey/Wolvie MK series and Shield plot ripped off Simonson's Thor run (" i know your secret ID because i'm a spy and thats my work to know stuff like that"), and then with all the "events" that you know. Joe Q Made it worse (on purpose i'ld say), but he didn't start it.
So yes greenlighting stuff like Sin Past, and even more the change he forced on it, Civil War, etc... were manipulation to make the reboot inavoidable.
And he didn't like the marriage. And i & many fans liked the said marriage. And i'm not very happy to see it go away. But i think that it opens doors that were closed, not because the marriage was a bad thing but because most of the writers didn't know what to do with it.
I don't like how the reboot was done. That was silly. That was out of character & didn't made sense on many levels.
But Brand New Day isn't OMD. It's good traditional Spider-Man stories, taking place in the 2008 reality. It is well writen, and well draw. The Jackpot stuff looks like an idioty, but thats the only wrong point, and even that could lead to some good stuff. We'll see.
The sooner Joe Q will resign as EIC, the better it will be for the characters, but even if he was wrong in how he did the reboot, even if he spoiled the characters on purpose to make the reboot a necessity, he was right to do the reboot.
I'll miss the mariage, and hope that MJ will be back as Peter's girlfriend, but Brand New Day is a good Spider-Man storyline, and deserve your attention.
There's one and only one reason to skip Brand New day: The hope that Joe Q will be fired if the sales drop.
Other than that, Brand New Day is the best Amazing Spider-Man story in years.