Because the old myths were written and interpreted by men at a time when the role of men and their acts against women were not questioned, I mean, kidnapping and raping a woman to make her his wife was well regarded until approximately 1940.
Having said this, it seems unwise to me to analyze this work of fiction and the behavior of the goddesses with those that were invented and / or appropriated under a totally patriarchal culture.
And it seems to me that calling "men hater" those who seek justice for abuses perpetrated to a gender or, as the text says to all those who are not men, is not understanding where this world is moving now.