Neither do I.
Rene gave up Oliver to spare himself and keep his daughter- a daughter he only has again because of Oliver.
Dinah was consorting with a man who had tried to kill them all several times, a fact that will look even worse when it's revealed he's working with James now (though I have a feeling that he's acting as a mole for Dinah).
Curtis could have kept his happy life and just been tech support, but he wanted to get out in the field- a desire that literally EVERYONE tried to dissuade him from. But he put on a mask, and as a result has lost pretty much everything. And while I do think he has more reason than the other two to be offended by being spied on, he shouldn't have been surprised by it.
Interesting how each new member has someone pulling for them (Dinah-Diggle, Curtis-Felicity, and Rene-Thea), but that Oliver wasn't pulling for any of them.