First of all, I don't think the Perez run is for everyone, but there are other awesome runs after it that you should check out. Greg Rucka in the 2000s wrote an action oriented saga with lots of gods meddling. But I'm quite fond of William-Messner Loebs, he made Diana a really fun character.
Anyway, do you have the same opinion about Wakanda that you do about Paradise Island? And are you aware that the amazons pre new 52 are immortal, and thus they don't give birth to boys or girls. They are mostly a group of women warriors, that escaped enslavement and abuse and came to that island long ago and hid from the world so that they could have peace. They sometimes welcome some women to their island, but mostly they are just the same people that arrived there 3000 years ago. They aren't segregationists, they are isolationists. And I agree that part of the WW story should be about her coming to our world and then teaching the amazons to open their hearts to the rest to the good people that lie out there.
But guess what, in the early 2000s Phil Jimenez created a neat status quo for the amazons, where they became a sci fi society on floating islands that served as a cosmic university for the entire universe, and all people were welcome to the island, including men. Too bad you haven't tried to read those stories.
(Greg Rucka then destroyed the island, which is one of the things I'll never forgive him for, even though he wrote good stories.)