Originally Posted by
toddcam
Man, I feel old. 25 year old storyline. I remember, even though I was so in the closet I didn't have a word for it, picking up on the Bobby gay vibes to his issues with Emma Frost and into that scene with Jean, and thinking his fear of his powers and thus taking a more prominent role would leave him the center of attention, and he wouldn't be able to hide his feelings. I remember that road trip with Rogue after she kissed Gambit, and how he had still been struggling with Frost knowing him so intimately, and on some level I thought, "yeah, they're friends, but isn't it kind of convenient that Bobby's hanging with a girl who he can never touch and he's totally free to be just friends with her?"
When Bobby got around to confronting Emma, in Uncanny #331, I remember she taunted him with a gay joke (interior decorating) and had illusions talk to him (I used my Marvel Unlimited to refresh my memory): his "dad" said "I'd always hoped I raised my son to be a better man than that. But you're not a real man, are you, Bobby? You're a mutant. You're --" and Bobby interrupted the illusion. Then another illusion of Opal Tanaka appeared and talked about how he never loved her and was there to make him look good. He denied it and then Emma put up an image of Beast who talked about "partying" with him. Then Bobby lashed out again and said he would not be, among other things, seduced. This was what convinced me, basically.
I was thinking about it all the way through Operation: Zero Tolerance, when he kissed Cecilia as part of a ruse, and I was like, boy, he has a lot experience kissing girls without feeling anything. It was such a strange time in my own mind but somehow I filtered all this and wanted it to come to fruition. Then Bobby left the team and I couldn't afford comics anymore so I wasn't really aware of what was going on.
Chuck Austen was not a great writer, but after I was able to return for a few years to comic collecting, he did kind of bring back the idea of Bobby being gay, with him briefly flirting with Northstar (who had a crush on him) and Lorna claiming she and Bobby never slept together, but it was pretty thin evidence.
Oliveira mentioned showing those times he almost came out. I would love to see that story. Seeing how someone could show Bobby's levels of denial. It could resonate with me very well I think (I didn't come out to myself until my early 30s). I really want to see how he reflects on his relationship with Cloud (who normally was a naked girl but fucked him up when she turned into a boy). I bought the Pride book and while it's kind of crazy to think Magneto picked up on something no one else did (while he was in his cartoonishly evil phase to boot), it was kind of touching. The sliding timescale makes so much of this hard to consider, since the attitudes have changed so much in the different eras. Bobby in 1965 dealing with homophobia vs. the early 80s vs. mid-90s vs. early 00s vs. now. That story began with horribly stilted 1960s dialogue (where no sentence was allowed to end in a period), shouting exposition.