Look, we all know the guy gets around, right?
I just found an old google doc I made on the subject. Unfortunately, I can't remember a lot of the specifics, but I basically deduced that Wolverine has had 60 love interests and/or sexual liaisons in 616. I can divide them as follows...
Flashbacks/Retcons/Pre-X-Men-Days
Rose O'Hara
Clara Creed
Silver Fox
Raven Darkholme / Mystique
Seraph
Atsuko
Itsu
The Native
Charlemagne
Janet
Lin Sun
Pinch
Remus
Rose Wu
Heather McNeil
Carol Danvers
Undefined Time Period
Snowbird
Squirrel Girl
Defined Time Period
1975. Jean Grey -- Giant Size X-Men #1 onward
1987. (Storm first teased) -- (unknown comic)
1990. Gakh -- Wolverine: The Jungle Adventure
1991. "Redhead” --Rahne of Terra
1999. Random woman -- Wolverine/Cable: Guts and Glory
2001. Pink Lady -- Wolverine/Doop #1
2004. Storm -- Uncanny X-Men #450-455
2005. Elektra -- Wolverine #20-25
2005. Rogue -- X-Men v2 #169
2010. Black Cat -- Wolverine & Black Cat: Claws (though I also have written down here 2006 for some reason)
2010. Melita Garner -- Wolverine: Weapon X #9 - Wolverine v2 #304
2011. Storm (third time?) - Wolverine and the X-Men#1
2012. Dazzler -- Wolverine: The Best There Is #12
Needs More Research to Nail Down a Time Period
Abilene
Ai-Chai Wong
Amber Deblasio
Alika
Annabel
Amir
Atsuko
Black Widow
Catharina
Dolores Downing
Domino
Echo
Eva
Katrina McCann
Kay Cera
Kayla
Lynx
Mary McKenna
Mai
Psylocke
Seraph
Tyger Tiger
Typhoid Mary
Spider-Woman
Viper
Yukio
“Flex’s Mother”
Anyone wanna help me nail any of these down? When the heck did have a thing with Black Widow?