Diana isn’t American, and is treated as such. She is seen as an “exotic” foreign goddess in a way that’s crude and childish for male fantasies. It goes far beyond “looks” which is brought up in such an insecure manner as you have. However, same can be said with Lois being a glorified housewife during rebirth,
or this perfect American city girl that get away with have a bad obnoxious attitude thinking it’s some girl boss power.
The struggle between Superman and Wonder Woman is that their “humanity” goes into question if they dare acknowledge being the outsiders they are as well as not being tied to American love interests. Or where do they actually fit but come to realize being different is what they should represent instead of conforming.
Superman’s identity reveal under Bendis was that he was oddly widely accepted with little to no fall out and not questioned at all. Instead was propped as President or King of Earth.
New52 Superman was propped to lose everything when his identity was revealed and went through hell. He lost the Kents early on but learned on his own how to move forward and be a man instead of having the privilege of flying home when things got a little tough. Or the fact that they were brought back for post-crisis/rebirth Superman to have his perfect family. New52 also wasn’t praised easily but had to earn his way.
Jon Kent is supposedly being propped up as the “one true” Superman and stronger, better than Clark, a full fledged Kryptonian. He is better and special because being part human. So pot calling kettle black here don’t you think?
At least any kids Clark and Diana have would be unique instead of copies.
Bold: Superman is suppose to be for
everyone no matter age. That’s where the relatability comes from. Risks are taken with Batman and Spider-Man. But middle aged white men want to self insert themselves in to the character. Any changes with Superman to even try to push him to the modern era even with getting rid of the red undies is met with backlash. New52 Superman wasn’t for the middle aged and wasn’t full of self hate because he wasn’t a normal American.
I actually like what Superman should stand for but don’t like that his potential is wasted on the bare minimum or that he is written as a naive simpleton with outdated views.