Oh my God can they just not? His personality and hers are not compatible pair that with the fact that they are literal gesds of states on a galactic level and that gaping chasm is made a zillion times worse. T'chala will always choose wakanda over storn, storm will always chose arakko/krakoa over him. Its simply what it is. They can be friends but lovers and I a relationship? No please. Let this die let storm get someone New someone who will adore her and not make contingencies against her. Someone she can actually trust.