This is not me putting on a cape for Color Purple but Black people as a whole can quote some deep cuts in general. We can unify quoting Fishburne's Ike Turner- men and women for it's over the topness. And roll about it strong for a half an hour. (...Is What's Love got to do with it a feminist work?). Also depends on what you can see as masculinist, and the layer that this too is generational. I do agree with the overall point but c'mon- overall Color Purple is Black Black but it's one story, with roots. BLACK people quote it and often times, most times, you know it's in some sort of jest at this point. I've never heard a Women of Brewster Place drop in any circle of Black folks I've been in since that one came out, so I'll take your word on that lol. Generationally speaking, there are 2-3 generations that have come up with 'reality' **** as their Color Purple so it ain't all good.
It can get funky but you're excluding a lot of pre-1980's movies as well as any Hip-Hop, or any humor orientated projects. Not always the most, uplifting portrayals (similarly to Color Purple) but they are in the zeitgeist nevertheless among us, where it counts most. Cautionary tales are also not without merit. 90% of them from a male pov, Ice Cube alone has got memorable movie lines in the culture 3 or 4 times over.
Again I mostly agree, Black male marginalization is real and because entertainment speaks so loudly to our society it reinforces itself. I just push back in that a lot of this imo is in the direction of the group as a whole. Fwiw Ororo peaked 3-4 years after her debut. Damn near 40 years ago, unfortunately she is stronger as a concept than as an actualized character, far from it.