The problem is you not being able to patiently wait a few more months for another Black Cat mini-series
Really, I think it's very refreshing a franchise like this manages to avoid the current culture fad. And that's what turning all these characters are is, it's a fad, an inflated bubble that is going to burst. Spider-Man is right to stay well clear of it and show a corner of the world that isn't plagued or defined by identity or sexuality politics. Marvel dialling back on 'representation' is exactly why they've dominated DC for a considerable duration now. Representation doesn't always matter.