Now I don’t know who to trust, as I too have read X-Men comics for decades, and am reading their current stories. What we perceive a set of characters to be doesn’t mean that’s ALL they have to be.
This goes for Ms Marvel as well, as I’ve seen a lot of people perhaps going overboard with their critiques (telling the writers they’ve messed up the whole show/character etc) - when really we just need to wait and see.