For most of their time in Iceland, Miller rented a sprawling, modern Airbnb in Reykjavík's suburb of Kópavogur. They filled the home with a menagerie of Icelandic artists, expats, and spiritual confidants whom they encouraged to stay there, even though many had their own homes in Reykjavík.
One woman who visited the house for a day in March 2020 recalled several mattresses spread out on the floor and compared the house to a "commune." She was struck by how enamored guests seemed to be of Miller, hanging on their every word and seeming unfazed by Miller's mood swings. "I felt like everyone was hypnotized," she said.
Between Miller's makeshift commune, their monologues on spirituality, and their emotional outbursts, rumors began to circulate in Reykjavík that the star was running a cult.
Miller held court daily at the Airbnb. They often alluded to possessing supernatural powers, two people said, and instructed guests to participate in group meditations led by Young Bear. They spoke at length about fate and the importance of social justice for marginalized groups. Many of the people who became involved with Miller said they believed in the issues Miller cared about but Miller often took things too far.
Two people said Miller's celebrity status and power made them hesitant to go against the actor, in part because of Miller's generosity. Miller insisted on paying for the friends' food, lodging, and weed. A musician who recorded with Miller in Iceland said the actor handed him 200,000 króna, roughly equivalent to $1,500, for his birthday. The musician said the more time he spent with Miller, the more he behaved like them and believed in their spiritual powers.
"Nobody ever was kind of allowed to disagree with them," recalled a young woman who said she had a brief sexual relationship with Miller in Iceland when she was 18. "Their reality painted everybody else's reality. There was no room for anybody else's opinion or feelings."
Some guests said they felt frightened during Miller's mood swings.
A 23-year-old woman who visited the house twice said she witnessed Miller fly into a rage when a group of friends tried to pick which song to play over the sound system.
She said Miller swore and screamed at them to leave the house, which the actor referred to as a "sanctuary." "They snapped from being a friendly host to this really angry person," she said. The 23-year-old said Miller wouldn't allow the offending parties to speak or explain themselves.
The woman who visited the house in March said that when she tried to use her phone in Miller's presence, Miller got angry. They "would be like, 'Hey, I'm talking to you! Why are you on your phone?'" she said.
At another point, Miller ushered the woman and her friend into a room and confronted them about wanting to leave the house. "You don't like my hospitality," Miller told them, adding that they could read the pair's minds, the woman said. She remembers feeling intimidated and trapped.
The woman eventually sneaked a text to a family member asking them to pick her up. She said that leaving the house felt like making an escape. "I was a bit traumatized for a while," she said. "It was one of the weirdest days I've ever experienced."