Very very hard same. Still cannot believe to this day how whisker-close he came to irrevocably ruining Harry. The Kindred mess is still salvageable, I think, future writers don't even have to bring him back to life if they don't want to, but god know it'll probably take years.
Harry is such a weird character to even want to ruin, which leads me to only one conclusion: Spencer probably met James Franco at some point.