Yeah, that is pretty f***ed up, can't lie there. And the worst part is that both of those things were imposed by external forces rather than internal character development. Ben was torturously killed and revived 27 times until he went insane and nearly caused a Carrion apocalypse trying to prove what was done to him wasn't for nothing, then eventually got "fixed," only to be broken again by the Beyond Corporation "accidentally" stripping him of his foundational memories trying to simply erase recent ones that had caused him to turn against them and turned into something called "Chasm" after falling into a big puddle of psycho-reactive quantum-shifting polymers. Osborn, on the other hand, got a shotgun blast to the face that mystically purged his evil from him, though it could easily be argued that if he really felt all that bad about all he'd done, he'd admit to it in public and willingly serve his time or accept whatever other penance or punishment would be due to him.