Originally Posted by
Rift
Xavier csn be an asshole, BUT he neglected kids in New Mutants because he was busy and trusted the New Mutants to take care of them. He was a jerk to Legion (I'd argue that's more Spurrier playing it up to extremes for the aake of his story, like this one), but Legion was usually unstable, had a personal grudge against Xavier and could wipe the whole island out. He was a threat that he couldn't control, and feared Legion couldn't control himself on top of it. He's a control freak, but there's a difference between those cases and and Condom Man slinging prophylactics.
As for Toad, yeah that's a good point. Though that was under extreme circumstances. They lied to protect Wanda and keep the Rezz Protocols a secret. Idr if Toad was in on it either, but probably not lol. He still should have brought Toad back though, which is why I cite him as one of the people actually screwed over.